The other day I had to call the apartment office with a complaint (cheap carpets ripping up, paint rubbing off, things that aren't our fault and that I don't want to come out of our deposit!)
She decided she needed to call the manager and ask them what to do.
This is how the conversation went down
Her " Look I don't know what to tell you, I'm going to have to call the manager and get back to you."
Me "okay."
Her " Do you work? Or do you just... Stay at home?"
Alright. Do I work? Or just stay at home?
As if staying at home with a child is the complete opposite of working? This is how the conversation should have ended ....
Look lady.
It's only 10 in the morning and I've cooked a breakfast for my family, made dinner and put it in the crockpot, changed 3 wet or poopy diapers, cleaned a messy kitchen, dressed, brushed the teeth, and did the hair of my squirmy toddler, (and myself) , read 3 books, helped draw a picture, folded a load of laundry and started a new load of laundry, made beds, vacuumed the living room which resulted in the carpet ripping up, handled at least two tantrums, fed a cat, tidied up the house.. Needless to say, I've been up since very early in the morning and I've been busy from the moment I got out of bed. Now let me ask YOU. Do you work? Or do you just... Sit at your desk all day and vaguely answer peoples questions?
Grrrr...
So, obviously, this is a topic I'm a little sensitive about. Before I got pregnant with #2 I was entertaining ideas of going to work. Using my degree. But we have decided that our babies need me more than anyone else right now.
So, being a mom is my line of work and I'm very passionate about it. I love it, it's very fulfilling for me. But. It is work. I don't sit around in my pajamas all day everyday watching tv and eating. Do I want to sometimes? Yes. Especially being sick. And once in a great while I will stay in my pajamas a little late. But every day? No. I'm not home everyday either, but when I am I'm busy.
I know this woman did not mean to offend me. But please be careful what you say about what people are doing with their lives. Don't belittle someone who does something differently than you....
Or they may just turn around and write a nasty blog post about how horrible you are and what they wish they would have said to you!! :)
That being said. I love being a mom! I love my baby girl and the baby to come!!
This is my life now and I wouldnt have it any other way!
( morning sickness plus poopy diaper is bad business around here.)